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am I looking for love in all the wrong places...? hope not perpetual optimist here xx

BBW (49) looking for Male Manurewa, Auckland, New Zealand

The next few steps in my life are really an adventure in themselves...rediscovering all sides of me ...
I am a friendly caring outgoing vibrant woman ... I am trustworthy, have a good ...sometimes dry sense of humour. I don't keep secrets & love people who can communicate when they need to because try to but can't read minds..have tried with lil success. COMMUNICATION HONESTY AND INTEGRITY ARE IMPORTANT CORE VALUES.

I AM A BBW, 5ft 5 120kg, Iwas 190kg and have lost over 60 kg for my health and quality of life. I have a big soft tummy, I love me and in the process of being a happier freer ME

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageNew Zealander
Height165 cm
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleMiss

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchReady , well I miss having good company, someone to share thoughts, explore life with & cuddle, hold or just simply sit quietly with in good company, would be nice to have that.

HE IS Honest, Loyal, with Integrity, reliable, kind, caring, affectionate, generous in nature not in materialistic things, romantic, empathic, compassionate, passionate, knows joy and love and how to give and receive them in abundance,

I want Someone - who can see me not just the physical person but the entire me...because I am ataahua.
He sees the nice girl, sometimes grumpy me, the sweet and sour funny weird, funny me.

I am a trustworthy, reliable and honest person. I value people, differences and also like a good debate lol looking for like minded people,

-who is willingly to build friendship first
-to share time together doing things we both enjoy
-who can understand the need for independent interests, and I am a pretty upfront person
Our first dateA hot or cold drink coffee tea at a nice cafe or bar? dinner and a chat? doesn't really matter, place means nothing, as long as we can chat, maybe see if we like each other, if no oh well each go our own way, if yes, then on to the rest of the date, I like both planned and unplanned dates. I am initially shy and then generally outgoing.

I usually know I like a person within the first few minutes, I know what I like and this is a key part of the initial spark for me. I trust my instincts and know exactly what I find attractive in a person and my instincts seldom set me wrong.